MMF Threesome Guide

How to get a MMF Threesome

Threesomes are fun. MMF means Male-Male-Female (2 guys and one girl).

I’ve had MMF threesomes with over 30 different girls, ranging from 15-year-olds to 30-year olds. Most girls were 17-20 though. All legal. I’m heterosexual, so it has always been a guy and me fucking a girl together without touching each other.

I have both have threesomes by pulling girls from nightgame, by pulling girls from daygame, and by setting up day2s… Check my MMF threesome sex reports here.

~ 70% was with girls who either my friend or I had fucked before.
~ 30% was with girls who none of us had been sexual with before.

If you want to have a MMF threesome, I recommend you to start out with a girl who either you or your friend has fucked before. This is the easiest way.

What you need for the threesome

  • Yourself.
  • A good-looking friend.
  • A private place with a bed/couch.
  • A girl that you have fucked before.

Step 1: Set up the threesome

Introducing the idea

Start by fucking the girl yourself. After you have had sex with her, and you lay in bed and cuddle (or whatever you like to do with a girl after sex) you mention your friend. Tell her how much fun you always have when you hang out with him, tell her how you guys are really close friends and do everything together, and talk with her about stuff like this. Show her some good pictures of him. Shirtless, if he has a good body. (It shouldn’t be obvious that you show off his body, but it can very easily be done by choosing pictures from the beach / the gym) The hotter your friend is, the better (obviously)

Then tell the girl: “Actually, you know what? You two are actually pretty alike! You have the same humor/personality/energy/good mood/whatever (choose 1). I’m sure that you guys would really come along well! We should all hang out someday, you, me and him! It would be such much fun!!”

If you just had sex with the girl, she obviously likes you. She will figure that your close friend is probably a lot similar to you. Therefore, she probably WILL like your friend too. She will figure this out with her social girl-brain. So in my experience, 95% of the girls will say “Yeah sounds awesome I’d love to meet him!”

Setting the sexual frame

The more SEXUAL your relationship with this girl is, the easier it will be. In other words, if you met this girl in a cool way and fucked her good, escalated like a man and all that shit, she will see you as a very sexual guy. The frame for her interaction with you will be “this guy is not a provider – this guy is a lover/sex guy”.

When she connects “sex” to you, she will probably figure out that your close friend is also a sex guy. And as soon as you start mentioning that she should meet your friend, she WILL start fantasizing about a threesome. I’m not saying that every girl is into MMF threesomes. But if she just slept with you, and was attracted to you because you acted manly and sexy – there is a pretty big chance that she likes “sexual masculine guys”. If she likes sexual masculine guys, she will also like two of them. Trust me!

If she slept with you because you acted like a sweet-provider guy with dinners and romantic stuff, she might be more into “intimate romance” stuff… But you probably didn’t act like you wanted a relationship – not many guys want to share their girlfriend with their friends!

Setting up the actual date on the phone

A few days later, set up the date on the phone:

“Hey + smalltalk” for a few minutes

Then tell her: “My friend and I are hanging out this weekend, you should join us sometime for some ice cream/pancakes/food/movie/tv-show/whatever.”

She says “Yeah sounds good.”

You say: “Cool so is Friday or Saturday best?” (or Sunday) just give her 2 different options, that both means “yes”. This is basic sales technique. If she has some objections, you can try to talk her through those… I will make a guide about convincing/selling/pushing/dominating the conversation soon.

BAM, you agree on a day and a time, tell her you are looking forward to see her and end the conversation.

Bonus tip: Hang out with your friend while you call her, so that you both can talk to her. This is actually really good, because you can let the two of them talk on the phone for a bit, which will build connection between them, and show her that your friend is pretty fun and cool.

Text/call her a day before or a few hours before: “We are looking forward to see you ;)” to confirm.

Step 2: Escalate to the threesome

Before you meet her, talk this game plan through with your friend:

When you both meet her (at your door / somewhere public close to your place) set the frame to sex ASAP, in the usual way: Give her a long extended hug + “you look good”. Then introduce the girl to your friend. He should hug her good and compliment her too. For instance, he can say “Good to see you, I’ve been told a lot of good stuff about you.. ;) ”

Go to sex location (your place / your friend’s place) ASAP. Use a lot of sexual innuendo, to communicate that you guys are sexual masculine guys, and set the frame even more. But remember also to laugh, have fun and build a little comfort with the girl. Small talking is definitely a good thing.

Now, at home, you can make pancakes together/watch YouTube clips/whatever you want. But remember, as usual: strike when the iron is hot and don’t hesitate TOO long. It also depends on the girl and the situation. Sometimes my friend and I have fucked her 2 minutes after we came back to my place. Sometimes we have hung out with her for 1-2 hours before fucking her. In most of our successful threesomes, the escalation/sex happened within 30 minutes though.

BUILD SEXUAL TENSION / TURN HER ON

Remember how girls work: the more physically TURNED ON she is, the less resistance. Your game plan should be all about BUILDING SEXUAL TENSION and TURNING HER ON.

Your friend should go to the bathroom after 5-15 minutes. When he is out of the room, grab her, push her down at the bed if you aren’t already there, make out with her and dry hump/touch her pussy. MAKE HER HORNY as much as you can. Don’t kiss her when your friend comes back though.

There is two different “interactions” going on right now:

  • The 2-person interaction between you and her.
  • The 3-person interaction between you, her and your friend.

If you kiss her in front of your friend when he is just a spectator: this will frame him as a “spectator” and “not part of the fun”. (I guess…). Also, this will release the sexual tension of the 3-person interaction. You want to save and build this sexual tension. Only release it, when your friend can join.

Secret ninja KINO of doom (aka touching her discretely)

When he comes back, all three of you should now sit on your bed or even better: lie at your bed, and put a blanket over your feet/bodies. This is fucking cozy and builds a great connection. She should always be in the middle between you of course.

Touch her “secretly” under the blanket (caress her body, grab her thighs, massage her pussy, you might even finger her) All this, while the 3 of you are just small talking, having fun, teasing each other, watching TV, whatever. Oh yeah, and put on some music that sets the mood and makes it chill (I will make a post about this soon too)

AS SOON as you feel the moment is right / she is turned on / the sexual tension is high / you are horny / whatever:

  • KISS HER FOR AT GOOD 5-10 SECONDS IN FRONT OF YOUR FRIEND.
  • THEN SAY “WOW SHE IS SUCH A GOOD KISSER … HEY KISS EACH OTHER!”
  • NOW YOUR FRIEND MUST NOT HESITATE: HE MUST KISS HER ASAP!!

It is very important that you tell them verbally to kiss. She needs your “PERMISSION” to do something sexual with your friend – usual dudes might get mad if she kisses their friends. ALLOW her. Lead her.

mmf threesome guide 2Escalate extremely fast!!!

As soon as they kiss, GO ALL IN. Now the sexual tension is being released: take advantage of it!!! FULL ESCALATION – GO FOR THE PUSSY ASAP. Having an MMF threesome is way more “unacceptable” by society, so don’t let her logical brain think about it! You might use some of the steps in my Escalation Guide- Just do it much faster than usual!

Since you have fucked the girl before, and you have brought the two persons together, you are THE LEADER OF THE INTERACTION. It is your responsibility to escalate and lead them! Take her hands and put them on his body. Tell her to touch him. Tell her to kiss him. Tell HIM to touch her. Tell HIM to kiss her. You must LEAD. And she must feel that you are in control of the interaction, since she trusts you the most (she has already slept with you) But your friend should also escalate by himself.

I cannot point this out enough: I recommend escalating SUPER fast in MMF threesomes. As soon as the girl kisses your friend, it should basically EXPLODE in horniness. As soon as she kisses your friend, finger her outside her pants, and get your fingers down her pants and finger her pussy within 30 seconds. Seriously. Move faster than fast.

Use your fingers to turn her even more on, and keep her turned on, while you take her hands on your dicks, make her suck your dicks, and escalate to sex as usual – just much much faster! Basically you should aim to have a penis inside her within 2-3 minutes after kissing her. You have to exploit “the heat of the moment”

I recommend that your friend inserts his dick first. In this way, you make sure to establish the frame that he is part of the sex too. I have tried a few times where I fucked the girl first – and then she got second thoughts and wouldn’t fuck my friend. If you use “the heat of the moment” to get your friend’s dick inside first, it is “too late” for her to regret. And she has already fucked you before, so she will easily fuck you again.

Use dirty talk to reward her and turn her on: tell her how hot it is when she kisses your friend, and how much it turns you on. Dirty talk guide coming up soon.

Important note: both guys must participate ALL THE TIME, until both have been “inside”. When making out/escalating/fucking her, don’t let you or your friend out of the fun. Always keep the frame that this is a “3 person thing”. After you both have been inside her pussy, the threesome has officially happened, and there is no way back for anyone. From there, it is okay to take a break if you want, while your friend fucks her more. And vice versa.

Step 3: Enjoy the threesome

From here, it’s just to fuck her, get your dicks sucked, lick her, finger her, do whatever you want. Have fun with it. You will probably laugh and experience some awkward funny situations, but just keep a fun and playful mood and everyone will be fine. The more experience you get with MMF threesomes, the easier and smoother it will become.

There are plenty of sex-positions you can use in a MMF threesome. I will point out the easiest:

  • Missionary (Legs to the sides or over the shoulder)
    The other guy sits close to her head and gets his dick sucked.
  • Doggy style
    The other guy sits in front of her so she can suck his dick.
  • Cowgirl (the girl riding)
    The other guy stands up to the left/right side of the girl, and gets his dick sucked.
  • Double penetration (DP)
    Girl is riding guy1 (guy1 is lying on his back). Guy2 enters from behind (kinda like doggy style from his point of view).
    Follow the usual anal-tips in my anal guide. This position is probably easiest if you have fucked the girl in the ass before (so you know that she likes it and she trusts that you know what you’re doing)
  • More MMF threesome positions
    These 3-4 positions should be plenty, but if you want more, just watch some MMF threesome porn videos for inspiration.
    I’d love to put some of my own homemade videos up, but I don’t think that would be legal.

Pros

  • It’s fun
  • It’s a girl’s fantasy that you fulfill for her (the girl will love you for this)
  • It’s possible to last longer because you can take turns (the girl will also love you for this)
  • It’s really bonding as friends; I swear my friendships with the guys I have had MMF threesomes with are so much better and closer.
  • It’s a good practice for your sexual comfort/confidence
  • It’s an easy way to get new lays with new girls. When you get a new girl, you share her with your buddy, and when he gets a new girl, he shares her with you. It’s win win!

Cons

  • Some guys will experience erectile dysfunction the first time they have a MMF threesome. This is completely okay, of course it is an extreme situation to have sex and be naked in front of another guy. Don’t compare yourself or your dick-size to him. This is no competition. Just RELAX AND HAVE FUN. Remember you are fucking awesome just for doing this kind of crazy stuff. If your dick doesn’t work, TAKE A FUCKING BREAK AND LAUGH ABOUT IT. DON’T PUT PRESSURE ON YOURSELF.
  • She probably won’t want to get into a relationship with you after this. Losing your status as “boyfriend potential” might mean that she won’t contact you or hang out with you again. Though when I think about it, I have actually had sex/threesomes with more than half of the girls again afterwards. So don’t worry, you can probably continue having sex or more threesomes with her.

I hope that this MMF threesome guide has been helpful.
Let me know if you have any questions or comments below, and let me know how it works out for you!

Leave a Comment

  • Reply Horny 3. February 2013, 7:09 PM

    Yeah, I have a comment: you’re one crazy motherfucker!!

    no but seriously, can’t wait to try this when I have a close buddy who’d be into this kinda stuff. I don’t know… he’d have to be someone that I’d be comfortable sharing all my secrets with to suggest doing something like this.

    • Reply Boy Toy 3. February 2013, 7:11 PM

      Haha, well you don’t have to share all your secrets with him.. Just your girl ;-)

  • Reply mcstyl3 9. February 2013, 1:28 PM

    haha gonna try this out tomorrow with my wingman

    got quite the nympho from germany (i live in the netherlands) shes coming over finally tomorrow my plan was to fuck her go to my best friends house get stoned make out while he is in the kitchen or whatever and let is escalate he comes in and i let it escalate as u have written it down on your guide

    keep up the good work my man

    • Reply Boy Toy 9. February 2013, 6:37 PM

      awesome!! lemme know how it goes!! :D

      • Reply mcstyl3 18. February 2013, 6:24 PM

        Well im glad to inform evry1 on boytoystory that the mission is accomplished!!!!

        it went totally perfect this guide was really helpfull

        i had some time problems because after i had fucked her a couple of times at my place we fell asleep and woke up at 18:00she had to catch the train of 19:30 and my wingman lets call him goku lives half an hour from my place.Ofcourse she did not know anything about the plan and thought we just went over to goku to smoke some weed.

        well we arived at 19:00 due to crappy public transportations and walking.(wich was a great oppurunity to brag about gokus sexual performance abilitys)
        The moment we were at gokus house he hugged her welcomed her etc and i kept the conversation sexual like giving sexual compliments about how tight her pussy was and how good she could suck a cock etc.
        When goku left to make a ”sandwich” i immidiatly kissed her and touched her and started getting her hot and fingering her saying this is so exciting etc just trying to get her brain in the I WANT SEX NOW! mode

        just as i pulled her pants down and mine to let her sit on my cock goku entered (fuck just a bit to early ) she got shocked i was to actually starting to hesitate but as Goku entered i kept fingering her and goku just sat next to us and started touching her legg and holding her while i kept kissing her she was getting touched by 4 hands not knowing who was touching where because she had her head turned arount the kiss me

        when goku was fingering her i commanded her to sit on my cock so that she would stand up and pushed her a bit towards goku so that goku could kiss her and i entered her standing behind her (no anal no anal whole night )

        well eventually long story short we both fucked we came simultaneously me in her pussy goku on her face. She loved it and wants to do it again many more times it brought me and goku way closer and we felt like hmm SUPERSAIYANS (baws for the 2 people that dont know dragon ball z )

        this was great guide as this was both me and goku’s first 3some and we didnt have any idea how to do it and didnt know what to expect

        thnx bro!! thnx alot :)

        • Reply Boy Toy 19. February 2013, 7:38 AM

          YEEEEEESS!!!!!!! Good job man!!!
          You make me proud and happy hahaha!!!
          Come to Denmark so I can give you a fuckin hug!!! :D

  • Reply Jerzeeguy84 24. February 2013, 7:21 PM

    Nice guide and nice work mcstyl3. When I have some time I might post some of my threesome lay reports. One involved a chick we picked up at a bar that me and my buddy were fucking within a couple hours of meeting her.

    • Reply Boy Toy 25. February 2013, 7:38 AM

      DO IT!!!!!! :D

      • Reply Jerzeeguy84 27. February 2013, 2:46 AM

        This wasn’t the first time but one of the better times…
        My buddy and I went to a local bar down the street from his place. We planned on picking up some girls and heading back to his place for an after party. Well the place ended up being dead and had too many guys for the amount of girls that were there. It was late but there was a group of hot girls we approached. The hottest one took and interest in my buddy and I. He’s probably better looking then me by a few points but I’m a much better talker so she was consumed with both of us in conversation for only a few minutes. He friends wanted to leave but she turned and said “I’m going to stay with…” She didn’t even know our names. So naturally I made up names and it was something like Chris and Derrick. We didn’t remember her name either so it didn’t matter. Fast forward ten minutes and she’s walking back to my buddy’s place with us. When we get back there I make some moves on the couch while he is getting us some drinks. He comes back with them in the middle of a make out session and sits next to her on the other side. I had my hand on her inner thigh and he came in from the other side leaning into her putting his hand on the other thigh near her pussy. She just turned and started kissing him too. It was on. Withing a minute we had her on his bed sucking both of our cocks then getting fucked by one of us and sucking the other, vice versa… She was loving every second of it. She was so turned on by it she even let us double penetrate her. We both ended up cumming all over her at about the same time but she was still going for more. She started sucking our cocks again. My buddy was a gentleman and wiped his cocks off having just been in her ass but it wasn’t enough to really clean off and it was close enough to a2m. That started a whole second round of the threesome.
        That’s one of my reports shortened to fit into a comment. A lot more happened that night and other times too.

        • Reply Boy Toy 27. February 2013, 7:26 AM

          CRAZYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HAHHAHAH!!!
          DP – Did you go 2 in the pussy, or 1 ass 1 pussy?
          Sounds like a fun girl!! You guys had a good time:D

          • Reply Jerzeeguy84 27. February 2013, 2:53 PM

            We did one in ass and one in pussy. We made a weak attempt at two in the pussy but it didn’t seem like she was going to handle it. The double pussy has been done before but that’s a different story.

            • Reply Boy Toy 1. March 2013, 7:42 AM

              … !! Looking forward to that haha :D

              • Reply Jerzeeguy84 2. March 2013, 8:15 PM

                Haha that’s a little bit different story I could tell you privately if you like but too much to type out on this comment.

                • Reply Boy Toy 2. March 2013, 11:32 PM

                  Well, you should! mail/at/boytoystory.com

  • Reply Dj :) 26. April 2013, 6:17 PM

    Totally a fantasy of mine! Doesnt every woman want to be spoiled sexually by 2 men at once? Hubby & I often talk about this and we are planning to simulate it with a dildo instead of another person at this point. For now ita just a fantasy but it drives us both wild! Although if it were to ever happen i would be sure that i am the center of attention.. in this case i think the woman is allowed to be a little selfish, right? After all she is such a generous hostess ;) And for all the ladies out there that think this is just disgusting.. loosen up & get in tune with yourself sexually. After all you would totally be lying if you said you said you didnt lie in bed and fantasize about this.. i know i would be!

    • Reply Boy Toy 29. April 2013, 10:13 AM

      Nice with some female confession!!
      If the guys are straight you will naturally be the center of attention, dont worry ;)
      You’re right that most girls actually fantasize about getting taken by 2 guys at once.
      Its understandable – Double the domination and double the dicks :P
      Have fun living out your threesome fantasy.

  • Reply DirtyGirl. 29. April 2013, 3:12 AM

    I want this so bad.
    So fucking hot but whats even hotter is two brothers..mmm

    • Reply Boy Toy 29. April 2013, 10:44 AM

      Well I dont have a brother, but I’m pretty sure I can get one of my friends to act like he was… So email me if you ever come to Denmark, haha ;-)
      Btw, nice fantasy and thanks for sharing.

  • Reply ayyodubz 23. August 2013, 11:36 PM

    damn ima do this shit with my boy, we’re both in the Army this shit should be fun as hell lol

    • Reply Boy Toy 25. August 2013, 10:30 AM

      it IS fun as hell!!!

  • Reply erv 13. September 2013, 4:30 PM

    Glad to know your happy about fucking 15 year old girls. Good job about that statutory rape and barging about it and also telling people that they should go out and do it. I am sorry that you live your life through your sex, I bet you will be very happy when your older and your tricks no longer work.

    • Reply Boy Toy 15. September 2013, 1:24 PM

      Dude I dont know who the fuck you are, but it sounds like you seriously need to go out and get laid so you can get all that sexual frustration out of your life haha.

  • Reply mszcrazy3 21. September 2013, 6:25 AM

    Hell this guy knows what he’s talking about.. I have shared my fine as girlfriend with one of my best friends twice, she’s addicted now and now she hold onto me more and her trust issues about me cheating is no more, doggie style and cow girl is her favorite… And to the DA about fucking 15 year old girls need to realize girls start early these days maybe talk to the girl because they come to us and it takes her to she’s the main person in this.. Yo man hit me up on email lol

    • Reply Boy Toy 25. September 2013, 3:55 PM

      Awesome! Sounds like a great girlfriend indeed!
      Yeah girls start early – I don’t mind ;-)
      email sent.

  • Reply Alex 1. October 2013, 12:58 AM

    I think the commenter above just is not aware that the age of consent where you’re from is 15 years old. Here in the states it would be considered rape because the age of consent is 18. Just to clear things up.

    • Reply Kamarinskaya 1. October 2013, 7:14 PM

      Yeah, that’s right, but not being able of remembering that you also had sexual urges under 18 requires either having Alzheimer’s OR (most likely) being a stupid douche who thinks that because ALMIGHTY LAW (or God) says something, then it’s true. I mean, 15′s legal in France, but I still don’t think that it’s impossible for a 13 year-old girl/guy to be willing to have sex (not all of them, of course). Weed and Holocaust denial are forbidden in France, but I still admit that neither lightly harming yourself (much less than with alcohol !) or saying something (even if it’s offensive. I mean, people never think about people like me who are offended by the mere existence of censorship lol) should lead you to jail.

      And don’t worry, I’m not specifically saying all of that because the guy is American, we have the same ones in France too…
      Especially given that 2 of the aforementioned things are legal in (at least parts of) the US and not in the “country of human rights”.

    • Reply Boy Toy 3. October 2013, 11:10 AM

      Ah, that makes sense. Thanks for the explanation:)

  • Reply Phalluster 7. November 2013, 10:51 PM

    u on dat phaggytime cuzz lol

    • Reply Boy Toy 12. November 2013, 10:20 PM

      I’m not entirely sure what you mean, but if what you’re trying to say is … that you’re too insecure of your sexuality to fuck a girl with your buddy in the room, then I hope you attain more sexual confidence in the future. People that call out “gay” usually do so out of fear.
      I know I’m 100% straight, so another naked dude doesn’t bother me at all. What about you? ;)

  • Reply sharo 12. December 2013, 5:02 PM

    have you ever done a gang bang?

    • Reply Boy Toy 16. December 2013, 10:44 PM

      I’ve done MMFF foursome and MMMF foursome.